When To End a Relationship
Ending a relationship is never at the top of anybody’s list of things to. However, the fact is that when a relationship goes bad, somebody has to make the move to end it. This is not always the easy path simply because breaking up is hard to do.These are some guidelines to breaking up that could go a long way to alleviating some of the hurt, and possibly allowing you to be friends after the break up.Be clear on the reason for the break up.
You will need to be honest and open about your reasons, no matter how painful the truth is.The best scenario is to discuss your break up with your partner in person. If distance is an issue in the relationship, the phone may be the only option available to you. A text message or email is too impersonal and cold and should be avoided. We have all heard of the Dear John, or Dear Jane letter, and if you are not able to discuss your break up calmly, this might be an option that will work.
Concluding the relationship with love and compassion is your only hope of being friends and will greatly improve your chances of making up later if you find you have made the biggest mistake of your life in letting your partner go.Discuss the memories you will cherish and the things you have learned from your partner, and don’t put them on the defensive.
If they become emotional during this discussion, be there for them and respond to their needs.Understand that during the transition time of your break up that your partner may need to meet with you more than once, or perhaps they will need space. Try to meet their needs if possible, however, don’t let them make you feel guilty.
Make it clear that you’re ready to begin a new phase in your life, and that it does not include a romantic relationship with them. It is always best if you can keep a positive relationship with your partner if possible, however, you need to explain that ending the relationship is in the best interest of both of you.Ending an intimate relationship does not have to mean the end of a friendship.
Could you get back together?
With time and effort, virtually allrelationships can be saved, and you may even get through this break up as an even stronger couple. If you are determined to not get back together, it will best then to make a clean break and move on. Even if that is never easy
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