What to do when your ex man is dating another girl, and how to cope with it.
It causes a huge amount of emotional pain when an ex-boyfriend (whom you still have feelings for) seems to be able to easily move on to another girl. Many women at this point lose all hope that they will get their ex back.Some will get upset and angry and quickly try to start a fight. It is a rare occurrence for someone to do the smartest thing, which is to put the odds in her favor. This article will explain how to do just that, giving you the highest chance possible towin him back.First and foremost, the most important thing you need to do is to enact a “no contact rule”. This means that you should have absolutely zero contact with your ex for at least one month. Do not call, text, email, mail him a letter, or Facebook stalk him.During this hiatus you should be working on improving yourself both physically and mentally. The fact that your ex has a new girlfriend can be heart crushing, but if you do not follow the “no contact rule” you could reduce your chances to win him back up to eighty percent. Case in point: Do NOT contact him.You must stay strong and determined.Getting angry, breaking down and sending a text to your ex that has a hateful message about his new girlfriend will NOT help your ultimate goal to win him back. The relationship that your ex is now involved in may be a rebound relationship. This is good for you as rebound relationships hardly ever work out. Odds are in your favor but you have to keep calm while he is dating his new girlfriend. Freaking out will solve nothing and you will make a lot of mistakes. Mistakes will only hurt your chances of reuniting with your ex.The further away from a breakup that your ex-boyfriend gets, the more nostalgic that he will become about the relationship.This means that instead of him remembering the bad times (like disagreements, fights, etc.) he will remember all of the good times. This will definitely work in your favor. While it can be extremely hard to want your ex back, it is vital to handle your feelings.Just because he is dating someone else does not mean that your chances of reuniting are washed away. Sometimes guys just need to go out with someone new in order to realize how great they had it with you. Understanding this will give you revived hope towards the goal to win him back.You must understand that you can’t control what your ex does but that you can control what you do. Just because your ex is dating someone new does not mean that it is your fault. Relationships really aren’t that simple. Realize that you are not a robot and you will feel lots of pain but it is how you handle that pain which will make all the difference. Try not to compare yourself to the new girlfriend, as you will only hurt yourself in the process.Once a month has passed, initiate contact with your ex through text messaging to test the waters. Each person’s personality is different so you will have to make your own decisions at this point on how to proceed, but it is really important to always be nice to both him and his new girlfriend. While it may be tempting, if you want to win him back you will have to resist it. Winning back an ex-boyfriendwho is seeing someone else can be extremely tricky. While it is not an exact science, you must follow the recommendations listed in this article for your best chance of success.
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